SM: How did you capture their attention?
Marvelyn: Well, I just kept it real with them. I just told them when I was in high school I didn’t have [HIV], just like you. And I would really point at them and say ‘you, yes you. I had an attitude just like you. I wore my shoes just like that, uh huh.’
SM: What is it that actually gets through to people when you speak about protecting yourself against HIV?
Marvelyn: [Speaking about how] I felt I was really above HIV—like it couldn’t happen to me, was something I didn’t need to know [or] care about. I think that’s important because I would have never gotten an HIV test … ever. It took for me to be unconscious for [the doctors] to test me without my knowledge for me to get an HIV test. Had I never gotten that HIV test, here it would have been four years that I wouldn’t have known I was HIV positive. All because I thought I was above HIV, not even knowing that the ‘H’ in HIV stood for Human. I thought it stood for Homosexual or Heroin Addict. You know, anything but me.
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| Truthbetold1 | |
| Marvelyn, I am very proud of you. For you too have the courage that you did when you revealed yourself to the public eye tell us a lot about you, however, I feel that because HIV is such of a deadly thing, it's selfish on your behalf when you choose to sleep with another who's negative. I underthand that you are a victim yourself, but a negative person should be educated on the disease, and you should just walk away because you know better than they do. Men can be so stupid when it comes to sex and a good orgasm, so they really don't think about the after-effects. I had a friend/Trina that died in 2004 and my 2nd cousin died in Sept 2007, so I understand how you feel. If I offend you, I'm sorry, but that's just my opinion. | |
| TinyDancer | |
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I truly feel for Marvelyn. She is a beautiful woman and I applaud her for being so courageous to share her story with everyone. But it makes me so angry that people are still having unprotected sex all the time. Let this be a wake up call that diseases are real and it could happen to you or someone you know. |
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| Maya522 -- Plainfield | |
| I'm so glad that Savvy Miss did this story on Marvelyn Brown. It reinforces the fact that HIV does not discriminate. I think it is great that Marvelyn is so open with her feelings and beliefs and does not define herself based on her HIV status. It is definitely an article that I will share with others. | |
| Carolanne -- Los Angeles | |
| What a powerful story. Hearing about someone like Marvelyn really reminds us that it could happen to anyone. | |
| axcar | |
| I will definitely share this story with my two teenage daughters and their girlfriends who will be entering college. This is something that young people do not think about and it comes with devasting consequences. I appreciate Marvelyn's desire to help others. She is so unselfish and brave. Thanks for the wonderful article Delilah. I am happy to be able to share these stories with my daughters( the story about the young girl who was raped and this story) and hope to possibly save them and their friends from the painful experiences these poor young women had to go through. Thanks again. | |
| Pari-love | |
| "I have a mission; I have a purpose in life." Marvelyn's philosophy on life is definitely inspiring and one to imitate. I admire her for all her courage, because I don't know if I could be as strong. | |
| ucsdgirl | |
| I admire the fact that Marvelyn is optimistic regardless of her situation and does all she can to help others. | |
| asya | |
| Many people are still unaware of the difference between HIV and AIDS and think that both only affect certain groups of people. It was helpful to read this interview in many ways, one of which is that it was a wake-up call to be more careful. | |
| crashing_nightingale | |
| Thanks Marvelyn for being so open and continuing to share your story with others. This is the kind of reality check people need but often forget. | |
| summer | |
| It takes a courageous woman to speak out against HIV. Thanks for sharing your story, Marvelyn. | |