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SM: So what happened? What did you do?
Lindsay: By the summer going into my junior year of high school I had lost over thirty-five pounds [making her 5’2” and around 73 pounds]. My mom changed my therapist and went in with me. I remember the therapist sitting there telling me, “If you don’t change your ways in the next month you are going to die.”
I think that’s when the notion of putting me in a full treatment facility was put into [my mom’s] head.
SM: Did you go to the treatment facility voluntarily?
Lindsay: Because I was under 18 I didn’t have a choice. I remember laying on my bed and my mom saying “You know, you should probably go to this place.” At that point I was so exhausted in life I was willing to give it a shot because I had nothing left to lose. And I remember feeling almost a little bit of relief going “Okay, I’ll do it.”
SM: What was the treatment facility like? How long were you there?
Lindsay: I was placed in a treatment facility for three months. I was subjected to six meals a day followed by therapy sessions of every kind. I wasn’t allowed to have any personal time or freedom, or talk to anyone outside of the facility, except my parents for fifteen minutes a night. All of my belongings were searched and locked up and all the rooms had alarm systems to alert the counselors every time you walked in or out of your room. You were not allowed to go to the bathroom by yourself.
I remember walking in there and thinking, “These girls are so much thinner than me. They have problems. I don’t have a problem. What are you making me do?”
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Thank you for sharing your story. I have met you and I am so impressed with your strength! You are a beautiful person. I wish the best for you! A friend! |
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| My best friend has had an eating disorder for at least four years and she doesn't seem to be improving. I just don't know what to do or say anymore. I think she should get serious help but I'm not sure if it's my place to step in. How can I tell her without pushing her away? | |
| LS -- New York City | |
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THANK YOU FOR THIS STORY. I can relate to soooo many things that Lindsay said. I'm a people pleaser to a fault, and I love when people say i look too skinny. When people tell me I look healthy, I take it as an insult and it motivates me to diet or work out more. Also, I have the "radar" and can spot someone with eating problems a mile away. Though i don't have full blown anorexia, I have definite food issues. Thanks for the reminder of how scary it could be if I let them get the best of me. LS |
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| TinaVail -- Ojai | |
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There is a book by Marion Woodman called Addicted to Perfection that might be helpful to anyone suffering from an eating disorder. Thank you SavvyMiss for getting this article out. It helps us all to be informed about this...and thank you Lindsey for your courage to speak. |
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