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SM: Do you have to maintain a certain weight?
Lindsay: I do. I have to monitor myself a lot. With my eating disorder I trained myself to not feel hunger or fullness. I don’t have those feelings in me anymore, so when I study for finals week—and I’m stuck in a library—if I don’t force myself to eat, I won’t even think about food.
SM: Have you been able to pick up that hamburger again or enjoy eating junk?
Lindsay: I can. I am not perfect. I definitely have some issues with my eating that are pretty obvious to people. I know my roommates sometimes get aggravated with what I eat.
SM: Like what?
Lindsay: I don’t like to cook meals. I’m very stuck on cereal—I eat cereal constantly and sometimes that’s all I eat in a day if I’m in and out.
SM: Are you okay with your body image currently?
Lindsay: Not at all. I’ve learned just to not register my mind into any of my actions because I don’t see what other people see.
SM: How do you deal with that?
Lindsay: I’ve kinda learned. I’ll look in the mirror and see something and I’ll tell myself, “This isn’t what other people see,” and then I’ll walk out and go somewhere.
SM: Do you ever look back and feel like you missed out on high school?
Lindsay: All the time. I don’t want to take back my eating disorder because I feel like that’s made me who I am today and I’m thankful for that. But also I do—I regret not being able to remember anything. I don’t remember my first high school dance, I don’t remember playing basketball—there are so many memories that are just gone from me.
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Thank you for sharing your story. I have met you and I am so impressed with your strength! You are a beautiful person. I wish the best for you! A friend! |
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| My best friend has had an eating disorder for at least four years and she doesn't seem to be improving. I just don't know what to do or say anymore. I think she should get serious help but I'm not sure if it's my place to step in. How can I tell her without pushing her away? | |
| LS -- New York City | |
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THANK YOU FOR THIS STORY. I can relate to soooo many things that Lindsay said. I'm a people pleaser to a fault, and I love when people say i look too skinny. When people tell me I look healthy, I take it as an insult and it motivates me to diet or work out more. Also, I have the "radar" and can spot someone with eating problems a mile away. Though i don't have full blown anorexia, I have definite food issues. Thanks for the reminder of how scary it could be if I let them get the best of me. LS |
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| TinaVail -- Ojai | |
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There is a book by Marion Woodman called Addicted to Perfection that might be helpful to anyone suffering from an eating disorder. Thank you SavvyMiss for getting this article out. It helps us all to be informed about this...and thank you Lindsey for your courage to speak. |
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