“To women who are in the prison of fads I would say this: ‘Paris looks better in it than you, and even she looks like a fool most of the time,’” Shawn says. “Instead, be your own woman. Express your own self with confidence. That's hotter than any push-up bra in history.”

John Crawford is a freelance writer, and a friend to women, based in the Boston area.

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