7. Choose something “unnecessary” over the “necessary.”
Getting through your daily to-do list can often get you in robot mode, making you overlook or feel burdened with what really counts as living. Who would have thought it would seem like a chore to return your childhood friend’s call, for instance? Slow down, put “stuff” aside and live the moment, in this case, with the people that know you best.
8. Space out.
Now that it’s nighttime, part two of your “just laying there” is due. Use fifteen minutes to not think about anything pressing. Let your mind wonder and wander. Imagination keeps us alive.
9. Let it go.
A quarrel with your significant other, an annoying conversation with your mom, a mistake you made at work—let it go. Take it easy on yourself and others or else you’ll never get the sleep you need for the next good day.
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| Lately I've been trying #1 and it really helps! I've been getting up a little earlier for work and it feels nice to take my time eating breakfast while reading the paper or watching the morning news. It definitely beats rushing out the door. | |
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I really enjoyed this article, especially step 9. Often I am way too hard on myself. It's good advice to be kinder to ourselves. I think it makes me kinder to everyone. Thanks for the good info. |
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| axcar | |
| I am going to try Delilah's 10 tips for a good day although, I don't think I will do #8 while driving as it can prove hazardous to my health. My problem has always been the broken slip. I get home late and have to get the kids off to school. This year they will be in high school and college and I won't have to get up early to bring them to school. I am looking forward to trying all 10 tips out. Thanks Delilah | |