Practice authenticity.
Suzanne Selby Grenager, an international life coach, mentor and writer, often reminds young professionals that authenticity is the key to a successful work persona. "Being real, even at the risk of seeming less than 'polished' is a better idea for would-be leaders than pretending to be somebody you are not," she asserts. "Don't we all look up to people who dare to be themselves?"
Instead of pretending you have more years under your belt than you do, impress your co-workers with genuine knowledge and self-confidence. Look people in the eye. Admit when you don't have an answer ready, but promise to get it and follow up quickly on that promise.
Cut the chatter.
It's tempting to join in on every "water cooler" discussion about office gossip and last night's television programs. But pay attention to who's talking and you'll notice they're usually not the people with the power to promote you. Learn how to exchange words with co-workers in a few minutes and never look idle or join in the office gossip or it may come back to haunt you.
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| Philly_Girrrl | |
| I agree with other's comments...Lily, I too had braces for about 1.5 years and just got them off about 10 months ago (I will be 29 next week)...so I know what it is like to look young anyway and have braces on top of that...don't stress you will get through it and have a beautiful smile (which, trust me is worth it in the end!)!! I still get carded and still am the youngest at the office...All the tips in the article are great. And I agree...when did it become appropriate to ask how old someone at work is... | |
| space_cowgirl | |
| thanks for this article- I wholeheartedly agree that it's difficult for us who look younger to be taken seriously at the office. I'm 24 years old and work at a law firm, yet my height (5'2) and possibly my ethnicity (asians tend to look younger) make people think I'm still 14. Give me a break! This article has really awesome tips that I will be using. I am now in the process of eliminating my usage of 'like' in my everyday speak :-) | |
| Olivia -- Tucson | |
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| lily -- Los Angeles | |
| I am a twenty-something with braces. It is definitely not fun to when people still mistake me for a highschooler even though I have a real job. Don't even get me started with what some people say to me at bars. I appreciate the advice and thank you for the article- because sometimes it's hard to be taken seriosly when age isn't on your side. | |