SM: What can we do if we’re not natural leaders?
Stefani Schaeffer: Recognize what your weaknesses are and attack those head first. If you’re shy for instance, go and join toastmasters and start becoming comfortable speaking to people and being around people. And if you’re not able to walk into a room full of strangers and work the crowd, start attending events where maybe you know a person or go and meet one person and then learn how to work the room.
SM: Are there any qualities leaders shouldn’t have?
Stefani Schaeffer: Leaders shouldn’t refuse to listen to others’ opinions. Leaders shouldn’t act like dictators; nothing is a dictatorship in business and the person you’re working next to one day, you might be working for the next.
SM: As a young female in a leadership position, what is your biggest challenge?
Stefani Schaeffer: I think it’s just that: it’s being young. Because you might have people who are older than you who resent the fact that you’re young and in a more advanced position. So you have to tread lightly and realize that there are people’s feelings involved. Realize you can be diplomatic and be professional and respectful regardless of the age difference.
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| fiona | |
| I have to admit I've never actually watched The Apprentice but I found that Stefani gave some sound advice. From her answers, she seems like a confident, determined, and hardworking woman who deserved to win The Apprentice. GO Stefani! | |
| MorganC | |
| I agree with bruinla. Women sometimes think that because they are taking on a leadership role, they have to act tough and mean. This doesn't have to be the case. Having power does not mean you have to be a dictator...I think respectful, hardworking people make it farther... | |
| LILA -- Los Angeles | |
| Stefani, thank you so much for sharing such great advice. You seem like you really have it together and each day I strive to do that myself. I must admit, it can be quite hard to bring enthusiasm to work on a daily basis, but, just like you, I've seen that enthusiasm seems to be a quality that a lot of successful leaders seem to share. I wonder,however, do you ever get burnt out and how do you deal with that? | |
| asya | |
| i can't say i'm a big fan of the donald himself, but i did love the interview with stefani. she's unpretentious and really gives women the inspiration to pursue their goals. i like her advice on taking pride in what you do. sometimes it's hard being proud of a humanities major when everyone around is doing either bio or engineering. her words are very comforting. | |
| bruinla | |
| Stefani's advice is really great! I think one of the most important things for women in high positions is to not be seen as a bi****. If you give off that energy, people will be less willing to work with you. | |