SM: You are a former model. How do you deal with attention from your looks in the business world?
Stefani Schaeffer: For beautiful women in general there’s always that preconceived notion that “Oh, you’re going to get by professionally on your looks.” The best way to overcome that is to shock people with brains. Strive to be the best you can be and do something everyday that makes you a little bit smarter, that broadens your horizons a little bit more. You can have beauty and brains and be a nice person too. And that’s the real kicker. Drop the attitude, check the ego at the door and then don’t care what people think.
SM: When you’re in charge, is it ever okay to admit that you’re wrong or scared?
Stefani Schaeffer: When you have a team working for you, they’re looking to you for an example, so you must be continuously positive—even if you have doubts. But that’s not to say that if you make a wrong decision [you should deny it]. You don’t always make the right decision, but recognizing it, and not being afraid to admit it and move forward, that’s the sign of a true leader.
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| fiona | |
| I have to admit I've never actually watched The Apprentice but I found that Stefani gave some sound advice. From her answers, she seems like a confident, determined, and hardworking woman who deserved to win The Apprentice. GO Stefani! | |
| MorganC | |
| I agree with bruinla. Women sometimes think that because they are taking on a leadership role, they have to act tough and mean. This doesn't have to be the case. Having power does not mean you have to be a dictator...I think respectful, hardworking people make it farther... | |
| LILA -- Los Angeles | |
| Stefani, thank you so much for sharing such great advice. You seem like you really have it together and each day I strive to do that myself. I must admit, it can be quite hard to bring enthusiasm to work on a daily basis, but, just like you, I've seen that enthusiasm seems to be a quality that a lot of successful leaders seem to share. I wonder,however, do you ever get burnt out and how do you deal with that? | |
| asya | |
| i can't say i'm a big fan of the donald himself, but i did love the interview with stefani. she's unpretentious and really gives women the inspiration to pursue their goals. i like her advice on taking pride in what you do. sometimes it's hard being proud of a humanities major when everyone around is doing either bio or engineering. her words are very comforting. | |
| bruinla | |
| Stefani's advice is really great! I think one of the most important things for women in high positions is to not be seen as a bi****. If you give off that energy, people will be less willing to work with you. | |