The Food.
Go sensual with finger foods by giving them fun names and serving on trays scattered around your bachelorette party space. Think “Sexy Satays” (thin slices of skewered and broiled chicken and beef sprinkled with toasted sesame seeds). Serve them with “Promiscuous” Peanut Sauce, which can be store bought. Add “Outrageous” Oysters on the half shell with a simple mignonette sauce of champagne vinegar, a pinch of sugar, and finely chopped shallot; vegetable sticks with a decadent dip; and something shamelessly sweet, like truffles. Also stock up on breakfast items for the post bachelorette party morning.

The Drink.
The occasion definitely calls for pink martinis! Get the bachelorette party rolling and collect car keys before serving classic Sassy Sidecars (2 ounces cognac, 1/2 ounce Cointreau, 1 ounce lemon juice, and a splash of cranberry juice) in martini glasses with pink sugared rims. Throw in a maraschino cherry for flare—and challenge the girls to a good old-fashioned tie-the-stem-with-your-tongue contest.

The Music.
Play fun ‘80s tunes that celebrate chick power, such as Cyndi Lauper, Madonna, Joan Jett and the Blackhearts, and Pat Benatar. For vixen factor, perhaps add a little Pussycat Dolls.

The Highlight.
Forget strippers at your bachelorette party—at least male ones. After the Sassy Sidecars have kicked in, surprise the bride-to-be with strip lessons from a female stripper. Throw in a group gift of a boa, bathing suit (in case she’s modest), acrylic skyscraper platform heels and a sexy hot pink wig. Don’t forget the video camera and make sure all the guests participate, lest the bride get stage fright.