Are You Too Smart to Date?

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As for smart girls who are looking to find love and marriage, don't despair. You don't have to be a short 23-year-old with the IQ of a sand gnat to find your dream guy. Despite studies that say otherwise, even the brightest among us can find Mr. Right. Marilyn vos Savant, who is the smartest tested woman in the world, found her match in husband Robert Jarvik, inventor of the Jarvik-7 artificial heart. It just goes to prove, there's someone out there for everyone: He's not only smart enough to steal her heart, he can build her one from scratch.

Dating Expert Lisa Daily is an internationally known dating coach and the author of Stop Getting Dumped! All you need to know to make men fall madly in love with you and marry "The One" in 3 years or less. For her FREE Dating Tips newsletter with great dating advice on how to snag the man of your dreams, check out http://www.stopgettingdumped.com.

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LISAMATTIE3955 -- BERKELEY

HELLO FROM LISAMATTIE3955, YES TO A CERTAIN POINT FOR ME DATING A MAN, WHY CAUSE ME PERSONALLY I ALWAYS FEEL LIKE THE MEN SHOULD NOT BE TOLD WHAT TO DO, HOW TO THINK, THINK WITH BASIC COMMON SENCE, DO SIMPLE TASKS,AND FOR ME LISA I THINK BEFORE I ASK A QUESTION TO A PERSON AND I USE MOST BASIC COMMON SENCE THATS SOMETHING MOST MEN AND WOMEN DONT DO NOW DAYS AND WHEN THEY RELIZE WHAT THEY HAVE SAID ITS TO LATE TO CHANGE RIGHT.MOST MEN DONT THINK LOGICAL ENOUGH FOR ME SO I RATHER BE ALONE,ITS GETS LONELY TO BE A LONE BUT FOR ME LISA IM FINE WITH IT, AND ME I LIKE OLDER MEN ANY WAY SO MOST TIMES I DONT HAVE THOSE PROBLEMS MOST WOMEN GO THROUGH WITH A MAN ANY WAY CAUSE I STAND AND LOOK BEFORE I JUMP RIGHT. THANKS LISAMATTIE3955

swan480

As I consider myself a highly intelligent woman, I have a few comments to make.

First of all, I've dated men who are both dumber and smarter than me. The dumber ones typically felt threatened to me and constantly tried to cut me down on an emotional level to make up for it. The smarter ones (of which there were very few) were incredibly annoying - I wasn't a threat because I wasn't smarter than them, but instead I was a trophy because I was *almost* as smart.

Personally, I think it's insulting to smart women to hear an intelligent woman say she wants to find a man who's smarter than her. It's like saying you *want* to be subordinate to your significant other. When I found my Mr. Right, I knew he was intelligent and well-read enough for me to hold a conversation with him, and that was enough for me. To this day I don't know who's smarter...and I honestly don't care. We have an equal relationship, and that's what matters.

However, I *do* think there's some truth to the idea that smart women marry less because they know better. Think of it this way: half of those who *do* marry these days get divorced. So maybe less smart women get married, but has anyone thought to look at the divorce rates? Maybe smart women are more likely to have high self esteem, less likely to feel dependent on men, and therefore less likely to make mistakes in their love life.

If that's the case, I think the lower marriage rate among smart women are ENcouraging, rather than DIScouraging.

kristart
What about people being different kinds of "smart"? If one partner is great at math and the other is great in languages I think they can compliment each other really well. On another note...I think many guys like to date women that are less intelligent, but like to marry women that are on the same intellectual level.

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