Yes, we all know that women are going to college and succeeding in the work force more than ever before, but when the US census revealed that 51% of women over the age of 15 are unmarried (compared to only 35% in the '50s) we couldn't help but wonder if the two were connected. Maybe it’s our successful careers and financial independence or maybe it’s because we’ve realized there’s no reason to rush into settling down—we can be as picky as we want. So what’s a selective girl to do when she feels like no man lives up to her standards? Savvy Miss turned to sex & relationship expert and New York Times bestselling author Ian Kerner, Ph.D., for his expert opinion.

Dear Ian,
There is always something wrong with every guy I meet—they’re either too bossy, too sloppy, or too cheap. I could go on and on. I feel like there are no good men left. What do I have to do to find a guy that’s right for me?