Dating How-To for Picky Girls
Ian Kerner, Ph.D., FAACS, is the author of She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman, selected by Amazon.com and Borders as a “Best of 2004” nonfiction title. A companion book, He Comes Next: The Thinking Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man was published in January 2006. Ian also authored the New York Times bestseller Be Honest--You're Not That Into Him Either. Ian lives in New York City with his wife, son and Jack Russell Terrier. Photo credit: istock/Bubbalove
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| space_cowgirl | |
| I always thought the phrase "You'll meet a guy when you're not looking" just meant to not stress and obsess about being single too much. I've given this advice to my friends before, but I meant it as- focus on other things in life like work, hobbies, or hanging out with friends, because through these means you are bound to meet an amazing person. | |
| hugme12 | |
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i always respsct to everyone thuoght but but go by my mind
| Olivia -- Tucson | |
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Haha. I think it's definitely important to have realistic expectations. It's all about the balance between that and not wanting to settle. Also Lexie: I know what you mean. People always say that...but it makes no sense! The only people that say that are peoplew ho already have bfs.
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| lexie | |
| I had been single for the longest time--and after you've been single for ages you just don't want to settle for any guy that comes along. When I expressed my frustration to my friends in relationships, they would tell me: "You'll meet a guy when you're not looking." What is that supposed to mean? It just seemed so condescending. I tried to "not look for guys" but trying to not to look turned into avoiding everyone and feeling sorry for myself. Finally, a great guy stumbled around, but it was when I was frustrated and still looking. I hate when people try and tell you to not look. I agree with Ian in that you should stay open and optimistic. | |
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