How will you know when you’ve found Mr. Right? “I will just know,” you insist. “I will feel the difference when I find Mr. Right.” Well, maybe, but a lot of Mr. Wrongs feel pretty right too, so how can you be sure?
To help you find Mr. Right you need to get clear about what you want most in a relationship, reflect on the following questions alone or with a friend, and snuggle up to your vision of Mr. Right.
How to Find Mr. Right
Focus on the high points.Think back to a high point from any current or previous dating relationship you have been in. Why was this a great moment for you? What was it about you and the other person that made this a peak experience? What can you learn from this about relationships and what is important to you?
Look at an ideal relationship.Think about friends and family members who are in relationships you admire. Or perhaps there is one part of a relationship that you highly regard. What is it you see in other partnerships that you desire? Why do you want this? What is it about each person in the relationship that makes it work?