Why a relationship?
Why do you want to be in a relationship? This might seem like an obvious question, but it offers valuable insight. What would be different about your life? How would a relationship improve your life? Are there other ways to make these things happen without Mr. Right?

Identify traits that you value most.
What do you value most about yourself? What values are most important to you in a partner? In a relationship?

Visualize finding Mr. Right.
Suppose I waved a magic wand and Mr. Right appeared. What does he look like? How does he treat you? What does he say, do and think? Pretend anything is possible and describe everything you would like to see in your Mr. Right.

Prioritize.
Take your dream description from above and select the 2-3 things that are most important to you. These are the qualities you feel are critical for you to really be happy and satisfied together. Be sure to phrase them in terms of what you want, and not what you don’t want. For example, state that you want someone who treats you with kindness and respect, rather than someone who is not rude.