You’re worried about him.
Are you worried about how Mr. Ex will function without you? You’re not alone. Your breakup persona is the Caretaker. Let’s be clear—there’s nothing wrong with taking care of someone (as long as it’s the right someone). But if you’re a magnet for every stray guy who’s out there, you’re in for a lifetime of romantic pain and suffering. And Caretakers beware—ex-boyfriends are notorious for taking advantage of your good nature. D.N.R. (do not resuscitate).

You’re not sure it’s really over.
Are you still holding out hope that your relationship isn’t totally over? Do you have lots of unanswered questions and find yourself regularly asking Why? Your breakup persona is the Crime Scene Investigator. CSIs tend to linger too long at the breakup scene. They may even muddy the evidence by going back and sleeping with their ex. But this only leads to more questions and it’s risky behavior to be avoided at all costs. If you’re a CSI, the best thing you can do is accept that not all of your questions will be answered and give yourself permission to move on anyway.