5. The perfect workout.
Working out is no longer about logging that hour of cardio on the treadmill. It’s about finding what works best for you. So get out of that gym and have some fun! Whether it’s hiking, biking, Pilates, yoga or some combination thereof, hop to it!

6. A financial planner.
Most of our mothers went from their father’s house to the sorority house to their husband’s house. Not today’s single gal. Most of us make enough money to live alone, give to charity and still go on that amazing weekend getaway with the girls. But after awhile, it’s time to get smart. Start planning for the future. And that’s where a financial advisor comes in.

7. A sense of adventure.
As we get older and the responsibilities mount, we often find ourselves feeling saddled with commitments like mortgage payments, family obligations and job duties. But a single gal must never lose her sense of adventure. Whether that means jumping out of a plane, buying that fire-engine-red dress or flying to Vegas for an impromptu weekend of decadence, go for it! You’re only single and fabulous once!

8. A hair stylist.
We women put a lot of stock—and product—in our hair. And if we’re not happy, it affects how we present ourselves to the world. So splurge a little and find the perfect stylist to meet your needs. You won’t regret it!

9. The right technology.
I used to live with a boyfriend who had surround sound. When we broke up, I held off on buying new TV speakers or any other electronic devices for a long time. My logic was: The next boyfriend will have all that. After several short-term relationships involving techno-savvy men and their toys, I eventually invested in my own electronics. Whether it’s a home theater system, a decent computer, DSL or just an iPod with your fave tunes, it’s time to take stock of what you’re waiting for a man to provide. And immediately provide it for yourself.