Top 10 Things Every Single Gal Must Experience
4. Have a romantic fling.
Let's face it—flings are fun! But you don't have to go all the way to get your kicks. A simple flirt-fest may do the trick. Then again, making out with a cute stranger in an inappropriately public place is a badge every single gal should earn at least once.
Don't put off that trip to Europe, the Caribbean, or to see old friends until you've met Mr. Right. Instead, recruit your girlfriends or take that solo vacay you've been dreaming of.
6. Fulfill a fantasy.
Don't worry—your fantasy doesn't have to involve sexy strangers and a hot tub. But if you've got a secret desire lurking beneath your good-girl exterior, give yourself permission to explore it while you're single. After all, the best way to enjoy that hot tub experience is as the guest star and NOT as one half of a couple trying to spice up a lackluster love life.
Find a cause near and dear to your heart. Why? For one it feels good to give back and two, it will squelch any lingering feelings of self-pity. Haven’t we already established that being single is nothing to be depressed about?
8. Conquer a fear.
Nothing gets you out of your comfort zone quite like conquering a fear. Whether it's public speaking, taking an improv class, going topless on that European beach, or even just sucking it up and asking your boss for that well-deserved raise, conquering a fear gives you limitless confidence, which will inevitably spill over into other aspects of your life—and may give you the courage to take risks in love as well.
Savvy single girls know that the key to happily ever after starts with becoming financially smart. Regardless of how little or how much you make, do yourself a favor and find a good financial planner who can help you sock something away for a rainy day.
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traveling is key - but i would go with a friend. to go alone is scary - i must admit. i traveled alone and i kept wishing i had a friend or a guy with me so i could go get a drink at night because i didn't want to be out alone at night by myself.
This is a great article. I love that it highlights that being single can be a really exciting adventure.
I recently wrote an article about finding your soul mate. Although, sounds like a different topic altogether, the gist is very similar.