The Breakup
SM: It’s hard to get back together after a breakup like that.
Evan: Well, it’s a breakup. You told someone that something is broken.
SM: What about people who get back together after they breakup?
Evan: A lot of the time they get back together out of loneliness and need. And you might get a little panicky because dating itself is difficult. And sometimes it’s not fun, sometimes it’s frustrating. So there’s a reason that people scramble to get back together, but it doesn’t fix what was broken before. So I’m not going to say that you can’t get back together, but things don’t change because you’ve broken up. Those problems are still going to exist.
SM: Well, what about when you breakup, and then stuff happens with other people, and you get back together. What should you do about the time in between?
Evan: Don’t ask, don’t tell.
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Ha, this sounds like so many arguments I've had with past boyfriends! I guess I tend to attract this type of guy for some reason: the one that will storm out after a fight and then come back the next day on his knees. I've put up with it a few times, so this gave a really good perspective on how to deal with all the issues if it ever happens again. Hopefully I've ditched all the crazy men in my life for now, though.
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