Not Calling
Keep in mind he may “not call” you, too. Calling is a two-way street, and you don’t want to let this strategy backfire. If he is not calling when he said he would or is obviously following the three-day rule or another strategy, beat him at his own game by referring back to “Unpredictability.” Or try these:

1. Don’t call for a day after he’s left a message.

2. Don’t call him if he text-messages you and asks you to call. Don’t text him back either.

3. If he calls you and you’re “busy” or on the phone, call him back at a random time and date.

Use “not calling” sparingly—just enough to keep him on his toes.

Using Sexy Words
The most powerful way to use words is sexually. There are a handful of words that, when falling from a woman’s lips, drive men crazy.

•    Panties
•    Thong
•    Sex
•    _____ [Any word describing sex or a woman’s body or undergarments will suffice here.]

By sprinkling your conversation with these words, you make his mind drift onto sexual topics. You are controlling his thoughts, which gives you the edge.

Deploying Sex as a Weapon
Using sex as a weapon can prove to be a double-edged sword. Here is a way to do it without painting yourself into a corner, appearing to be a tease, or becoming the object of a grudge:

•    Be flirtatious, but not too flirtatious. Thumbs-down include overtly touching him or promising anything explicit.

•    If you are ready to have sex, do so on your terms.

•    If he upsets you or hasn’t been attentive, tell him you need to be in the mood, and because of his rude actions you are not. Reschedule your session.