4. If you’re not naughty by nature, blurt out some profanity or outrageous comment. Don’t go overboard. Just make it noticeably racier than usual.

5. Ask him on a date. If he says no, shrug it off and don’t return his calls for a few days.

Overall, you don’t want to let your man/victim be able to sense any patterns about you, because if he does, he’ll quickly settle in around those patterns—and then lose interest.

Creating Rules for Breaking
If you exercise hypocrisy in the right way, it will get your man on the warpath, where he is actively seeking to understand how you can get away with something. You provoke this by creating rules that are ok for women to break, but not guys.

•    Say you don’t really like kissing in public, then plant one on him. Tell him you couldn’t help yourself.

•    Have him help you lift something in your home because you can’t lift it. Then bring up how strong you feel from going to the gym.

Employing hypocrisy as one of your subtler strategies can throw off his game plan. It works because in romance, it’s ok not to play fair sometimes. (Men don’t always play fair, why should you?)