Keep in mind that these “rules for breaking” are cute and fun, and different from the standards and boundaries for your relationship. Also, use the “good for girls, not for guys” sparingly; you don’t want him to get so angry he drops you.

Not Calling
Keep in mind he may “not call” you, too. Calling is a two-way street, and you don’t want to let this strategy backfire. If he is not calling when he said he would or is obviously following the three-day rule or another strategy, beat him at his own game by referring back to “Unpredictability.” Or try these:

1. Don’t call for a day after he’s left a message.

2. Don’t call him if he text-messages you and asks you to call. Don’t text him back either.

3. If he calls you and you’re “busy” or on the phone, call him back at a random time and date.

Use “not calling” sparingly—just enough to keep him on his toes.

Using Sexy Words
The most powerful way to use words is sexually. There are a handful of words that, when falling from a woman’s lips, drive men crazy.