•    Panties
•    Thong
•    Sex
•    _____ [Any word describing sex or a woman’s body or undergarments will suffice here.]

By sprinkling your conversation with these words, you make his mind drift onto sexual topics. You are controlling his thoughts, which gives you the edge.

Deploying Sex as a Weapon
Using sex as a weapon can prove to be a double-edged sword. Here is a way to do it without painting yourself into a corner, appearing to be a tease, or becoming the object of a grudge:

•    Be flirtatious, but not too flirtatious. Thumbs-down include overtly touching him or promising anything explicit.

•    If you are ready to have sex, do so on your terms.

•    If he upsets you or hasn’t been attentive, tell him you need to be in the mood, and because of his rude actions you are not. Reschedule your session.

•    Be intimate at unexpected moments and locations.