One of the biggest issues women have with men is "Why didn't he call back?" We know why insensitive men don't call back, they're creeps. But what about men who seem too nice to be that rude?

After talking to a lot of men about this problem, this is what it boils down to:

1) She said too much. Men tell me that many women go into way too much detail about their past relationships, especially of a sexual nature. Men don't want to hear it, even if they ask to tell them.

2) She talked about all the bad things every man ever did to her ... and she blames me. Men hate it when a woman blames them for what some jerk before them did to her. It's like they're guilty until proven innocent.

3) She's angry at men. She's got a chip on her shoulder about men and carries a bit of anger toward all men ... simply because they're men. This is a variation on number two but it's about men in general, rather than specific men and incidences.

4) She lacks some or all of the qualities he's looking for. Mostly any woman's list of expectations regarding men, marriage and relationships is pretty long. Consequently, most women settle for a man that lacks some of the qualities she was looking for.

A man's list is very short. For example, if a man's list of what he's looking for in that special woman is four items long, if one item is missing, that's one quarter of what he needs. If it’s missing, he's gone ... without an explanation.

5) She has sex too soon. Yes, most men want to get a woman into bed as soon as possible. But, if a woman he's really interested in has sex with him too soon, he quits calling because he figures if she did it with him so easily, she probably did with others equally soon in the relationship.