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I’m seeing a man who recently revealed to me that he’s slept with over 100 women and he’s only 30! He says he used to be a “playboy” but that those days are over now. We’ve had fun with each other and I would like to keep seeing him, but I can’t help questioning his character—I mean, was he sleeping with anything that walked before?! Is there a way for me to look past this guy’s past? Should sexual history really matter in the first place?
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| MinnieSheila | |
| Of course sexual history matters, but it should be put into context. If he has a good explanation of why he was so promiscuous in the past and you really think he's changed, then give him a chance. I'd hate for someone to dismiss me automatically for some of the mistakes I've made in the past. | |
| brownhairbabe | |
| Sleeping with 100 women is definitely a little sketchy, either he's lying (which is bad, who want's to be with a lier?) or he's only interested in sex. I would stay clear of this guy, I wouldn't want to be just another tally on his growing total. | |
| KatWilder -- Marin County | |
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Yes, sexual history does count -- along with other a lot of other things as well. You don't say how long you've been seeing him, what other qualities he has that might redeem his character (or show a different side), etc. So, I don't see a need to dump him yet (or ever) if you don't delve a little deeper. Nothing wrong in asking him why he slept with 100 women and what's changed now. Then listen to what he says (not what you hope he says). And if you don't think you can get past it ... move on. Otherwise it will always be the "thing" that comes between you.
| fiona | |
| 100 women is a bit excessive, isn't it? Either he's lying or he really got around. But if it's true and he says he's a changed man, don't let it bother you. I'm sure you can't help it (who wouldn't?), but the past is in the past. The only thing you can do is get over it to be happy! | |
| fun_in_the_sun | |
| This would definitely bother me. I would constantly wonder what it is he wants from me. But if he stays faithful to you and proves he really has changed, I say go for it. | |
| lily -- Los Angeles | |
| Really? 100? Drop him like it's hot. | |
| asya | |
| I would leave that guy like a bullet. There's got to be something wrong with him. Either he is fickle and unstable or he has really low self-esteem. | |
| nicole007 -- San Diego | |
| Jason Mulgrew is my new hero! Funny as hell and definitely endearing. LOL. Are you still single?!?!? | |
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