I can't get over my ex-boyfriend. We were together for four years but broke up because he wasn't giving me as much as I was giving him. He never hung out with my family or friends: Everything was on his terms. I took it as a bad sign and broke up with him. Fast forward two years and I'm still not over him. Yes, I go out with other men, have sex, etc.; but I haven't met anyone who I've felt a connection with like I felt with my ex. He's always on my mind and in my dreams. I know I need to purge him from my thoughts, but I don't know how. I feel stupid and pathetic that it's been two years and I still can't get over him. I fear that I'm never going to love anyone as much as I loved him.