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Okay, there's no way of being subtle about this. I've been seeing this guy for a couple of months who I can see myself with for life. I was snooping around in his bathroom - don’t judge, you know you’ve done it too - and I found some meds for herpes (see, snooping not so bad after all). Until recently I was dying to take my pants off (no, we haven’t gone there yet). Now? Not so much. Am I overreacting?
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| Ambiance | |
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When I was given a diary as a little girl I felt like it was a trap. I knew better than to write anything down because it would be "there" for anyone to read. With that thought in mind as an adult I just expect snooping because humans are humans. He had the medicine in his bathroom first of all, not in an underwear drawer. Secondly, you two actually haven't had sex yet and after two months I would think this is weighing heavily on his mind and thats probably why he hasn't told you. He may be afraid of loosing you... besides that.... two months in a relationship and neither of you have discussed STD's? Just asking.... The mere fact that you two are dating you should feel comfortable to ask regardless of what you found. Just bring up what you told us, where you want the relationship to go and how much you care for him. He may only need a window of opportunity from you.... |
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| hushpuppies | |
| Hi, kindly talk to a health professional about herpes . Few facts about herpes -- 1. Majority of population is infected by herpes .... atleast herpes labialis , known to cause cold sores i.e small sores or papules around the mouth or lips 2. It is not necessarily a STD. It can be passed on to anyone by touch , kissing , using used towels , using used or disinfected utensils , the tap knob in your office restroom ,the pen your office mate passes to you after innocently putting it in his mouth while thinking , etc . 3. Herpetic eruptions become mild with passage of time .It occurs only during stressful conditions such as sorethroat , fever etc . For more details search the net or as suggested talk to a health care executive . BE HAPPY ! | |
| KatWilder -- Marin County | |
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First of all, snooping is never OK in a relationship. Why? Because it totally tears apart the very core — honesty and trust. You violated that and I'm sorry but the "ends" (discovering the herpes meds) does not justify the "means" (snooping).
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