Maybe it would be good for you to just sit down with your significant other and say, “This is my heart, this is my passion, this is what I want to do with my life and right now what I need is for you to support me. And I don’t feel that’s what I’m getting from you right now.” Anyone who really cares about you and really loves you wants what’s best for you and wants you to follow your heart. If you put it in those terms to him, then he should understand.

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