This guy is not an ass in this situation. It happens so often in relationships and I just wanna open the girl’s eyes. When you met him, you used to do your hair and dress cute, so what makes you think he likes you everyday with sweats and pizza? That is acceptable once in a while—not all the time.

Now, since you love this girl and wanna do something about this situation, but don’t wanna hurt her feelings (if she’s really sweet), you can throw hints at her such as, “Baby, remember when you used to wear those sexy dresses with those fly shoes. I would love to see that on you again.” Or you can even offer, as your treat, to take her to the salon to get her hair did.

Now, if the girl is a bitch, you should not hold back. You need to tell her straight up, “You need a makeover. Stop eating ice cream and get out of those sweatpants!” She'll get the picture. It gets on my nerves when I see females letting themselves go, especially when the guy stays fly. It’s like you’re giving him a reason to wanna look at other females and take them out to eat. Next thing you know you’re in the house crying and saying, “I don’t know what I did wrong.” The point is that females are beautiful and should always make their men remember why they started dating them. JUST STAY FLYYY EVERYDAY AND BE A BUM EVERY ONCE IN A WHILE!

Hailing from Brooklyn, NY, Kathleen was a hairstylist prior to being a contestant on America’s Next Top Model: Cycle 8. For more on CW’s America’s Next Top Model, click here.