Ah yes, the classic “Friends with benefits” situation. Unfortunately, most of us have been there and while it’s a fun game for a while, it usually ends up turning ugly when someone wants to change the rules. Perhaps you should call a time out before you wind up suffering a major defeat of the heart.

Let’s call your late-night lover “Booty Call Bob.” It sounds to me like he’s only hot for you after the sun goes down. What is he, some sort of sexual vampire? A little wham bam, thank you ma’am and he’s outta there faster than a Scientologist at a Madonna concert. This “arrangement” lets him avoid any drama of a “real” relationship - no giving up time with the guys, no “discussions” about feelings and so on. This way Booty Call Bob has his cake and eats it too, so to speak. It’s a guilty pleasure with all of the pleasure and none of the guilt.

What’s that about? You totally deserve to be treated better and be with someone who genuinely cares about you…and wants to see you in the daylight. That sort of relationship will not only be more satisfying, but it’ll also do wonders for your self-esteem. Strings are there for a reason – they hold you together so you can be the amazing woman that you are and attach you to a man who knows it!