Can chemistry lead to compatibility?  You’ve proven that the two of you can make sparks fly in the bedroom.  Now you’re hoping you can click out on the streets. Here’s a bit of advice from some one who’s tried…and sometimes misses being bedded on demand.


1.    Great sex is hard to find.  So enjoy it for what it is: the best sex you’re having right now.

2.    Horny habits are hard to break.  Cut off the physical connection and replace it with another interest he’s passionate about. Has your boy toy dropped hints about getting his pilot’s license or looking for a better job? If so, follow his lead.  Here’s your chance to say, “Yes. I’d love to hear that guitar solo you’ve been working on.  Why don’t I make dinner for us while you serenade me?”  Share his passion for something else besides your sex life.

3.    Walk your talk.  OK, get out a sheet of paper.  List any conversations you have had with Mr. Sex-on-tap, no matter how insignificant.  Be honest, his verbal skills may not extend beyond the latest “Jackass” episode or his friends’ bowling antics.  Now sit down to dinner with yourself and imagine he’s there talking to you.  It may take a bit of practice to get through dinner without screaming, “Stop talking! Bed! Now!”