If she wanted you she would be with you. Yes it’s true, women love to have a man pull out all the stops for them but only if he’s the one. There’s nothing worse than someone trying too hard so I suggest you back off from this woman and give her the time she wants because that’s the only way you will find out what she truly feels.

Julia Hartley Moore is New Zealand and Australia’s most recognized Private Investigator—male or female. A regular columnist for women’s magazines, Julia is sought after for her expert advice and commentary on human nature, relationships, and infidelity issues. She wrote Infidelity Sleuth.