While some women might find it sweet that you want to fight for them, the question to be asked is; is this woman worth fighting for? She seems to be stringing you along and there’s a reason why the Neanderthal man is extinct, this may be one of them. If she really wants you to fight for her so she can make a choice, she has some insecurity and/or control issues that she needs to address.

Do you really want to be serious with someone who is a serial dater? There are a lot of wonderful women out there who desire the same monogamous relationship you do. Remember, people will only value you as much you value yourself.

If you chose to “duke it out” for this woman, there is no way to avoid something you already believe is “pathetic.” You will just need to take your lumps and hope you come out the winner.

Jaci Rae is the author of Winning Points with the Woman in Your Life One Touchdown at a Time: How to Score For Men and Women. Her grit and determination brought Jaci from a poor childhood to a successful career as a singer and relationship expert who tours around the world. She is the recipient of the “Female Vocalist of the Year” award at the Golden Music Awards in Nashville, TN as well as a Barnes & Noble and Amazon #1 Best seller. Jaci lives in California where she spends her spare time working on her music, writing and hanging out with family and friends. For more information about Jaci Rae or her books check out www.winningromance.com.