There is not a yes or no answer to this question. We all know that life is shades of grey, so just make sure you make a decision that tempers accounts for the heart AND the mind.

A transplanted Canadian, Murray currently lives in Melbourne, Australia, with his wife Andrea. Some of his female friends regard him as a "sensible girlfriend,” which is probably the sole reason why he accepted the challenge of writing dating advice in the first place. While not giving away secrets from the enemy camp, Murray keeps himself occupied with a fairly eclectic collection of friends and interests. He'll go now before this starts to sound too much like a personal ad!