I admit it, you messed up. Sorry to be so harsh, but if I don't tell you, who will?
But not to fear, there is something you can do to try to redeem yourself and make him want you again. It's not a foolproof plan, but it's the best thing you've got right now, considering my first inclination was: "Oh my gosh, this girl blew it and will never get him back!" See, suddenly "you messed up" doesn't sound that bad, does it?
Three words. Ignore, ignore, ignore. He said he needs time apart? Well, that's exactly what you're gonna give him: Time apart. No calls, no contact, no texts. (Shall I reiterate no texts? Nah, I think you've learned your lesson on that one.) Instead, you must act like a cloud of smoke and poof, disappear into the night or onto your best friend's couch to bitch about what you did. But seriously, no more then a few bitchfests, please. It's not like you stabbed the guy in the knee cap and he got a restraining order on you. It's really not the end of the world, so don't beat yourself up too much over it, okay? So, now that we got that out of the way, let's talk about how you're gonna get him back.
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