Listen to yourself! Wanting him to want you is about the neediest thing I've ever heard. What you really want is a healthy relationship with a normal, decent guy.

If you want to try to save this relationship, you have to come clean with him. Try making a joke: "Hey, I had an out-of-body experience last weekend and I was WAY out of control! I'm sure you think I am a freak show, but if you can give me a shot, I can show you that I really am a calm, reasonable woman." Leave it on his voicemail if he doesn't answer. Then LEAVE HIM ALONE! No one wants to date someone who appears to have no life of their own. If he had done it to you, you would have thought he was a little creepy, too.

If he never calls you again, DON’T CALL HIM BACK! Erase his number from your cell phone and consider this a learning opportunity. For future reference: One phone call or text message is all you are allowed unless you get a reply. One. Not one a day. Not one in the morning and one later that night. One. Have some self-control and self-respect.

The possible side effect of living your own life and not being consumed with your new toy is that you will be a more interesting person and might actually meet some other interesting people.