First of all, “Variety is the spice of life!” I think it’s great that you’ve found a couple of guys that you click with and are interested in! Men seem to have had the market cornered on this one—until now! As a smart and socially conscious woman, you can date a couple of different guys at the same time and NOT feel bad about it. Let me use an analogy that you might recognize: shoes. You wouldn’t consider buying a pair of Manolo Blahnik black crocodile slingbacks without trying them on, so why would you settle for a man in the same way? With shoes, you try on different ones, and whether it is because of style, shape, cut, color, price or heel, some fit better than others and some never make the cut. Should you feel bad that you wear one pair of shoes more than another? No. Men are like shoes. Try them on, see who fits and who doesn’t.

As for juggling—this is where we shine! Women LOVE to multitask, maintain lists and schedules! Apply this to your dating regime. Just know that even the biggest city becomes a small town when dating. Try not to go to the same coffee shop or martini bar with your man. Use this multiple guy scenario as a way to explore your city. Seek out the different restaurants, comedy clubs, outdoor theaters and other venues that you might not otherwise go to. Your cutie will appreciate the breath of fresh air too!