In my opinion there’s absolutely nothing wrong with seeing what’s out there. As a matter of fact, it’s necessary! But I would encourage you to ask yourself some serious questions about dating boundaries. If kissing multiple guys is OK, is it then OK to sleep with multiple guys? You might find that juggling dates and smooches can get a lot stickier than your favorite lip gloss. Despite the obvious health, reputation and emotional risks of communal kissing, you might want to ponder: “If the object of dating is to eventually find Mr. Right, is dating just a series of practice rounds that prepare us for our destiny?”

You might consider limiting the making out to the one guy you actually really like. Or just date around and find out if you really like anyone at all! We would probably agree that it’s not appropriate to kiss another guy when you’re actually in a relationship, and there’s equally nothing wrong with not kissing guys you are only dating.

One of my favorite quotes goes like this: "Sew a thought, reap an action. Sew an action, reap a habit. Sew a habit, reap a character. Sew a character and you'll reap your destiny.” So, your dating actions could possibly turn into bad relationship habits that could take a lifetime to break. With that in mind, I’d rather do my research when it comes to “Mr. Right” and take my risks on a pair of overpriced stilettos!