It is possible to have a running relationship with a partner with bad tendencies, but as far as a healthy relationship—this may not be the case. Girls always have this idea of wanting a bad guy because average guys just aren’t exciting or challenging enough, but the truth is, you really have to consider what exactly you’re looking for. Are you looking to just have fun? Are you looking for a serious relationship? Or are you looking just to date? All of these factors must be considered.

There needs to be substance behind good looks. Is there equal respect? Can he be trusted? Crazy 1 + Crazy 2 does not equal rational! I really don’t think it’s possible (in the long run ... which matters the most) for a bad guy and girl to date. Look at some celebrity couples for example: Tommy and Pamela; Britney and K Fed; Carmen and Dave ... highly exciting in the beginning, and then chaos. The bad boy or girl needs a counterpart to settle the other down, to explore each other's differences and learn from one another. It doesn’t get much hotter than that!

As far as why women like bad boys ... of course, it’s obvious—look at them! Exactly what mom and dad warned us to stay away from and they’re so damn exhilarating ... but be careful not to take the cookie from the jar ... besides, I'm watching my calories ;)