No. Stop wasting time with all the little boys who get off on playing games. It's time to graduate and move on up to M-E-N (I know, the species feels like they are few and far between).

You asked if becoming uninterested is part of a man's genetic make up: The answer is no, but it's definitely part of a childish commitment-phobe! A relationship that is based on games isn't serious and has a slim chance of working out. Don't waste your precious time playing with children.

The cliché, "Honesty is the best policy," works well in this situation. If you are honest and he runs away: KEEP IT MOVING!! He isn't worth your time and energy and you should/will find someone who is. You'll never find your prince when you're still playing in the sandbox with little boys.

Solie, 25, Boston, is currently partying her life away after more than 12 years of serial monogamy. She works as a fundraiser and event planner in Boston.