Besides the obvious “how much money do you make,” the one question you should never, ever ask on a first date is: “do you like kids?” Yes, I know it seems like a perfectly innocent question. But you ladies should know that it’s anything but that.
By asking this question, you’re basically communicating one of two things:
As long as you’re smart, sexy and confident, it really doesn’t matter to us whether you’re single or a single mother. So unless your ideal first date somehow involves an interrogation room, a polygraph machine, and Michael Jackson, please don’t bring up the subject of kids halfway into your appetizer.
Ron Lee, a.k.a. The Boston Bachelor, is the editor and writer of TheBostonBachelor.com, a mens’ sports, relationship advice and entertainment magazine. He is currently working on his first non-fiction book Tech: What College Wasn’t Like for the Rest of Us. He is also in pre-production for his debut feature film FOBS, and currently resides in the Boston area
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|LILA -- Los Angeles|
|thankfully, i don't have to worry about asking this one...don't have kids and don't think i want any, at least any time soon.|