It’s important to be confident in life, no matter where you are—the classroom, the boardroom, but especially the bedroom. Don’t be afraid to speak up and share your likes and dislikes with your guy. If you’re ready to get in bed, then you should feel ready to tell him how you like to be touched—there’s nothing embarrassing about that. You also have to be diligent about your standards. There is no reason to be with someone who doesn’t appreciate you for you. Maybe this "boobies" guy isn't really the right guy for you. You should be with someone who you can be completely honest with; speaking up about turn-offs is really essential in an honest relationship.

I know there are some things that really bother me. My biggest turn-offs in a guy are long fingernails, back hair and guys who use cherry-flavored chapstick! I am quite picky and you should be too. There are too many guys out there to be stuck with Mr. Boobies! So, remember to always be true to yourself and never settle.

A sorority president and native of New Jersey, Colie Edison is the strongest personality in The Real World: Denver house. Her disciplined attitude is comprised of making profound promises, keeping her word and displaying a go-getter attitude. Colie’s free-spirited nature makes it easy to label her as the typical crazy party girl, but those who care to observe notice a softer heart.