So I've been thinking about this question and two things come to mind. One is the fact that something your partner said turned you off (the word boobie/booby). I know from my experience that everyone has different expectations and boundaries and it's important to discuss those openly with your partner, when appropriate. If you're at a point in your relationship where you don't feel confident speaking openly about sex or talking during sex, then maybe you need to wait a little longer before delving into that kind of physical intimacy. However, even if you're not comfortable with that kind of question, you could maybe psych yourself up with this line of thought: I don't think very many men would be offended if a woman asked them during sex, “Uh, could you please not use the word booby?" Namely because they would have to assume that the question implied more sex in the future!

Now, on to the second topic at hand: the word “booby.” I started to ponder over whether or not this title was appropriate for the woman's breast. Now, as a whole, women's breasts are great, but when broken down I think most would find that a funny word like booby is unexpectedly appropriate. For instance, look at the nipple. It's a sensitive area of the body that sticks out like a little cylinder, waiting to be touched or whatever you prefer.