When grown men start saying "boobies"...

In some cultures this is a term of endearment and your chap was probably just trying to impress you, but I can see how you would feel a bit awkward. In his defense, many of us get so caught up in the moment that anything can come out. (I've called girls by the wrong name before and, oh, how I wish I would have said something more clever, like boobies. I could have probably talked my way out of that, the other not so much). Either way, most of us don't know what very good pillow etiquette is, so you have to tell your guy what really bothers you because he is not thinking about very much at that point. Face it, guys learn from movies like The Godfather, The Ladies Man or Anchorman. Or, if they're like my friends, porn (and God knows that's the wrong idea because we all showed up our first time and thought, "Where's that sleazy music?" and just left disappointed).

As for the whole "turn-offs" thing…

Although we have a certain archetype (mine is based on Beyonce and Nia Long), assuredly you have little to worry about because, unlike women, we're not too picky (I love that about us!). However, if you know your "nether-regions" look like Don King's haircut and you still show up ready, then of course you have a problem. But if you made it to third base already then you should be just fine. Clearly he's found something attractive (name the last guy you met who just loves to kiss and cuddle).