Remember that for every new couple, what happens in bed should be a clean slate. Whatever he was doing before, he can learn how to do something else now. The next time you’re together, take over the role of pleasuring him. Remember, at all times, that you are really into him…every part! Don’t rush back to the place where you’re engaging in actual penetration until you’ve gotten past the weird noises and faces part…unless those noises you think are weird are just howls of male pleasure! Oh, and by the way, most guys do get a strange look on their face at the moment they’re climaxing. A lot of women do, too!

Eve Marx is a graduate of Columbia University and the author of six dating and sexual relationship books including “10 Nights of Passion,” “What’s Your Sexual IQ?,” “The Goddess Orgasm,” “Read My Hips” and the newly released “Flirtspeak: The Sexy Language of Flirtation.” She lives in Westchester County, New York, just north of Manhattan. Her website is www.evemarx.com