I find it odd when people don't have sex. I see it as part of the "getting to know each other" period. There are a few basic things I need someone to prove before I decide to invest time in forming a romantic relationship: they need to be funny, they need to be smart and they sure as hell need to be able to have sex with me in a “good” fashion. If I meet someone who is sexy as hell, but is dull, I won't hesitate to express a lack of interest. Why should sex be any different?

Now, I just looked at your question again and it says, “What should I do about the sex?” Either you have to give it time to improve or just cut your losses and bail out. Although I do find the idea of you waiting chastely for a response vaguely amusing, I suspect you've already done the grown-up thing and talked about the problem with him. I hope you sorted it out satisfactorily.

Jamie does stand-up, improv and sketch comedy successfully enough to call himself a comedian. His relationship status is, frankly, none of your business. Why not try stalking him and his chums through the internet? www.pennydreadfuls.co.uk