While you might be afraid of the outcome of such a meeting and want to put it off, are you willing to risk putting it off for another three or four years, until before you know it 12 years have passed?

If that’s the case, you must ask yourself these questions: Are you staying with him just because you are used to him and the relationship is comfortable? Or do you stay with him because you think you can’t get anyone else interested in you? If the answer is yes to either of these questions or both, seek help to work on your self-esteem and self-worth.

Jaci Rae is the author of Winning Points with the Woman in Your Life One Touchdown at a Time: How to Score For Men and Women. Her grit and determination brought Jaci from a poor childhood to a successful career as a singer and relationship expert who tours around the world. She is the recipient of the “Female Vocalist of the Year” award at the Golden Music Awards in Nashville, TN as well as a Barnes & Noble and Amazon #1 Best seller. Jaci lives in California where she spends her spare time working on her music, writing and hanging out with family and friends. For more information about Jaci Rae or her books check out www.winningromance.com.