Okay, sister. There is no denying you need to figure out whether your boyfriend is on the verge of booking a one way ticket to España or to your heart. Because if he's planning on moving, you either need to sign up for a Berlitz Beginner Spanish class, or you need to send him packing, quick-fast.

With that said, I want you to listen very carefully to what I am about to tell you. As women, we have a tendency to just blurt out heavy questions like, "Are you moving to Spain when you turn 30?" at inappropriate times, like over the phone while he's at work, during a funeral or—even worse than death—during the Superbowl. ¿Comprende?

What it comes down to is timing and presentation. By presentation, I mean you must sugarcoat the question so it doesn't look like you are dying to know what his plans are because your life is based around his world and every move he makes. Therefore, don't come right out and ask him. Beat around the bush. The following is the perfect scenario for broaching this subject with your man, I mean, hombre.

Interior of a semi-casual, semi-loud, semi-dark restaurant, Friday night.

You: How's work going?
Him: Good. It's going real good.
You: That's great! Do you think you wanna stay with the company for a while?
Him: Ummm. I'm not quite sure. I really like it, so if they promoted me in the next year, I would stay for sure. Otherwise, I might look around in another year or so.
You: Where would you consider going? Would you do the same kind of thing or do something different?
Him: I don't know yet. I guess I'll cross that bridge when I get to it.
You: I know you've mentioned going back to Spain. That sounds cool. Would you still consider doing that?