Has this man asked you to marry him? Has he asked you to come to Spain? Has he told you that he has changed his mind? It seems the answer to all these questions is "No." Why on earth would you want to spend another year wondering if he is going to change his mind?

You hear him talking to his friends and family about moving, but he doesn't talk to you about it. I would take that as a pretty strong indication that he does not see you as a part of his long-term plan. Why would you want to have a relationship with someone who doesn't value you enough to include you in his plans?

He was honest with you from the beginning. You understood the terms. It is unreasonable for you to expect him to change his plans because you "are in love." You may not have figured this out yet, but love does not conquer all. Real life is messy and love makes it a little easier to deal with the bumps, but it doesn't take them away.

Break it off and tell him that you want a relationship with someone who wants to plan a future together, not someone who is keeping company with you because it beats being alone. Value yourself enough to have higher expectations of the men you choose. While you are licking your wounds, focus on what you want in a relationship… a man who thinks that you are the greatest thing that ever happened to him and can't imagine his life without you.