“It’s so hard to find a decent guy when you’re single.” “Being with the same person can get so monotonous.” Sound familiar? It seems like no matter our relationship status we always wish we were on the other side. In order to find out once and for all who has it better we asked you what it’s really like to be single or in a relationship and you did not disappoint. Here’s what you had to say about your sex lives, careers and whether you think you’ll find (or are with) “the one.”

Who Has the Better Sex Life?
Let’s get right to the good stuff: is it better to have wild, new, unpredictable single sex or regular, comfortable, reliable couple sex?

First is quantity, who’s having more? Couples win this round: 56% say they have sex a few times a week (with 8% having it every day!), but poor singles—53% say they’re hardly getting any.

But, who cares about quantity if the quality isn’t orgasmic. So just how good is the sex? Since 25% of couples say they follow a strict routine when they have sex, and 27% of singles are hooking up with different people, singles are back in the game and win our vote for the wild-factor.