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| foxabigail -- Block Island | |
| I enjoyed this article and I appreciate the offbeat topics you tackle. This is a real tough one. I would advise that no matter how great you think the guy is, if you can't really see yourself in his city or state without him, then I wouldn't make the move. You have to see yourself getting along there as much as you see yourself there with him. But that's probably not very romantic. The other issue is: how long does your true love planning on living there? If he's not really at "home," maybe it's not worth the bother. Oh dear; that's even less romantic. Well, those are my thoughts, b/c I'm grappling with that same issue. | |
| coconutmilk | |
| oh god, how true! i am now facing the toughest 2 1/2 months of my life, having relocated across the world for my husband (then fiance). Without a job (no identity, no income), no friends (his friends aren't really considered mine now, are they?), an 'inherited' housemate who abhors my presence because i am perceived as a 'freeloader' even though he knows my circumstances, and people from my country of origin who automatically assume that my life is perfect now and refuse to hear me say anything negative about it, for some reason, it's inevitable that i sometimes wonder if i made the right decision after all. it's a BIG decision, so THINK HARD and do your homework before making the leap! | |